Family Conflicts: Often Sparked Not by Arguments, but by These Kinds of ‘Reminders’

As the winter vacation draws to a close, the parent-child relationship in more and more families has sounded the alarm. Many parents feel wronged: Although they have tried their best to communicate wi

As the winter vacation draws to a close, the parent-child relationship in more and more families has sounded the alarm. Many parents feel wronged:Although they have tried their best to communicate with their children gently and calmly, the children are like “little firecrackers”, which can be easily ignited and cannot be scolded at all.

Today, let’s talk about where the problem lies?

Scene One

My five-year-old sonis sitting on the sofa watching the cartoon, watching with great interest. I looked at the time,it’s already 21:15.

“Baby, it’s late, it’s time to get ready for bed. You need to be in bed by 21:40. Do you know what time it is now?”

“No, the rescue mission is not over yet!”

“No, it’s not good to sleep too late, and last time you watched cartoons for too long and couldn’t sleep well in the middle of the night. Do you remember? Turn off the TV.”

“Mom is a big bad guy! I want to throw you out!”(The child is furious)